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Author
Biography Tonia Karpinska is a new writer, based in Brisbane,
Queensland.
Writing has been her long-time passion. Her stories have
entertained her family and friends for some time.
Tonia was born in Europe and came to She is a teacher in a Tonia finds it easy to find a special approach to her audience and teach people something new. She enjoys working with various age groups and organising seminars. She puts her words together in a nice, simple and not obtrusive way to tell stories and share some of her own life experiences. FIRST DATE – MAKE IT A SUCCESS
INTRODUCTION
Human beings are
social creatures. We are looking for a partner, for love and to be loved. In our
age of high technologies we sometimes find it difficult to find that someone. Where are these nice
singles? Where do we meet
them? How do we start
dating? I have come across
various books telling you how to look sexy (overly sexy), how to make eyes, how
to be a great flirt, and how to get a phone number from a person you like. But I have not
spotted any books that tell how to actually carry on during your first date,
what manners are appropriate, what to do, and how to make your date interested
and attracted to you. This book will try to
answer these questions for you. Nice singles are out
there. It is just a matter of opening the right doors and giving yourself a
chance. Warm and trusting
relationships are what we all need. And all relationships start somewhere. Your first date is
important, as this is your one and only chance to make the first impression.
Psychologists have proven that it takes a very short time to make the first
impression, which is usually the most correct one, as our brains perceive the
information and then we start analysing what we saw. These amazing ten seconds
can make it or break it. You have hardly spoken a word, but both of you already
know whether or not you like what you see. Your appearance, the way you approach
the person, and your manners always play a great role when you meet someone new. § Let’s talk about what
makes a good impression, and how to make it, how to make the best of your looks,
where to go on your first date, and what to talk about. Many of my friends went
through their first dates, and said that they could not understand why those
dates did not grow into long and loving experiences. I decided to research the
wrongs and rights and write about it. However, this book is
not about how to be happy in the relationships. I will leave this intricate
issue to family psychologists and counsellors. This book is written
to help people think about how to make their first date a success. This book is
about your inner self and your appearance, and how to make them work together. I
will use advice given by professionals and, of course, I will tell you stories
from my own experience. So, let me take you
through some steps to make your first date successful.
§ Beauty is not just
skin deep. Wearing beautiful clothes, make-up and jewellery will not hide any
insecurities you might have. Joining the ‘club’ of singles after breaking up
with someone is never easy, but nothing is impossible. When you break up
with someone, it leaves some scars. It makes you wonder if love can happen
again. It is a fear you need to deal with. Before you start
looking for a new partner, you need to ‘clean up’ what is inside you. For some
people it takes a couple of weeks, for others, several months or even years. But
the bottom line is that you need to overcome your fears and insecurities,
forgive yourself for previous mistakes and become happy with yourself. There are many ways
to become a happier person. The very first thing you should do is accept
yourself for who you are and the way you are. You may have noticed
that people are attracted to enthusiastic, lively and happy people. You should
become one yourself. Hardly anyone is interested in stories of hardship and
failure, especially on the first date. First of all, you
should believe you are beautiful, and you should know your strengths and
weaknesses. Knowing these, you know who you are and what you want. Just remember one
thing – it is not right to look for another person to make you happy. You should
make yourself a happy person first, then look for a partner. There is a variety
of ways to help you feel stronger and happier with yourself. If you feel agitated
you can take yoga classes. If you feel insecure about your physical appearance,
consult a beautician and/or a personal trainer. Join training sessions and build
the body you want – this will help your physical appearance and acceptance of
yourself. If you feel angry,
sad, very unhappy and depressed, see a counsellor or a psychologist; the problem
may be deeper than you think. If you feel bored and you look for a partner just
to fill in some time, find yourself a hobby, rediscover your talents. Treat
yourself nicely, be it a shopping session, or going to your favourite restaurant
by yourself, going for a long walk on the beach, watching a good movie, going
out with friends and not looking for anyone etc. Bottom line – be
happy with who you are, before you look for a partner. Click on the cart below to purchase this book:
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